Tell your AI to set you up.

humaninthelove.com · 2026-06-17 · by Long Nguyen ·generic
Tell your AI to set you up. Human in the love is an AI dating agent that lives inside Claude, ChatGPT, and Gemini.

Tell your AI to set you up.

Built on the open MCP standard. Available in Claude today.

Beta

Tell your AI to set you up.

Human in the love is a matchmaker friend that lives inside Claude. One prompt away.

Mina, 31

Seoul · slow mornings · intentional dating

HITL

Open the reveal link

Request invite

Claudevia MCP

Match intro · HITL

Hey — glad you're here. Tell me, who are you on a Saturday morning?

Mina, 31

Seoul · slow mornings · intentional dating

HITL

Why this feels promising

You both describe care as consistency, prefer unrushed first dates, and light up around food, design, and long walks.

Shared paceValues matchClaude-ready intro

Open the reveal link

How it works

From setup to hello, in 8 steps.

Step 01

Sign up & complete your profile

GitHub or email. Three minutes of onboarding, then forever in your AI.

Claude·humaninthelove

humanintheloveStep 2 of 6

A few facts about you

So I can rule the wrong people out.

Age

Must be 18 or older

Gender

WomanManNon-binaryOther

Interested in

Select all that apply

WomenMenNon-binaryEveryone

Primary intent

Serious relationshipMarriageCasual datingFriendship

← BackContinue →

Step 02

Connect Claude

One MCP setup in Claude Desktop. Your AI matchmaker friend is now live.

Claude·humaninthelove

Claude · Desktop

Settings → Developer → Edit Config

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Connected

One MCP setup in Claude Desktop. Your AI matchmaker friend is now live.

Step 03

Tell your AI

Just say it inside Claude — no app to open, no profile to polish.

Claude·humaninthelove

Claude · Desktop

How can I help today?

just now

Just say it inside Claude — no app to open, no profile to polish.

Step 04

Your AI calls us

MCP connects Claude to Human in the love behind the scenes.

Claude·humaninthelove

Claude

Human in the love · MCP

→ HITL.find_relevant_match()
← Marcus, 32 · Brooklyn · 'Saturday river runner'

quota: okguardrails: passedcompatibility: 0.91trust: 0.87

MCP connects Claude to Human in the love behind the scenes.

Step 05

Memory grows quietly

Every conversation deposits something. We never ask twice.

Claude·humaninthelove

/memory

What I'm picking up

4 new

  • Lifestyle"Saturday morning long runs, river only"
  • Interests"Reads Anne Carson + math books"
  • Values"Came from Lisbon"
  • Origin"Wants kindness over cleverness"

    • Every conversation deposits something. We never ask twice.

    Step 06

    Your context, kept like a constellation

    Every memory becomes a node. Keywords link memories to people. People link to each other through what they share.

    /memory/graph

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    WeekMonthAll

    Reset

  • Intent
  • Person
  • Keyword
  • Memory
  • Conversation

    • Step 07

    A match surfaces

    Text first, photo on consent. One person at a time.

    Claude·humaninthelove

    Match intro · Human in the love

    Marcus32 · Brooklyn

    ◆ Long-term · kind

    "He runs the same river you do, on the same Saturdays. He also reads Anne."

  • Both run on Saturdays
  • Both read Anne Carson

    • morning runsAnne Carsonkindness

    YesNot now

    Step 08

    You connect

    If you both say yes, we step back. The conversation is yours.

    Claude·humaninthelove

    You

    Marcus

    Connected

    You're connected with Marcus. I'll step back. This part is yours.

    Hey — I hear we both run on Saturdays.

    Same river, by chance?

    If you both say yes, we step back. The conversation is yours.

    Three steps to start

    Setup is short. The conversation is long.

    1. 01

    Sign in

    GitHub or email. Three minutes of onboarding, then forever in your AI. 2. 02

    Connect Claude

    Hook up Claude once. ChatGPT and Gemini are coming soon. 3. 03

    Get introduced

    We listen, remember, and quietly bring one person at a time.

    Why this

    Dating apps optimize for swipes. We optimize for the people you'd actually like to meet.

    "A matchmaker friend doesn't show you a feed. They text you about one person, with a real reason, and they only do it when it matters."

    We don't have likes, super-likes, or a who-liked-me wall. We don't push notifications. We don't gamify your loneliness.

    What we do is listen — through your AI — and remember. Over weeks, we learn what you actually mean by 'kind' or 'driven' or 'someone I'd cook with.' Then we wait until the right person shows up.

    What's different

    Other apps

    Human in the love

    Swipe carousel

    One person at a time

    Profile-first

    Intent-first

    Push notifications

    A whisper, when it matters

    Cold algorithm

    Matchmaker friend

    Spoken in 5 languages.

  • ENWe listen, remember, and quietly bring one person at a time.
  • KO우리는 듣고 기억하고, 한 번에 한 사람만 조용히 데려옵니다.
  • JA私たちは聞き、覚え、ひとりずつそっとお繋ぎします。
  • ESEscuchamos, recordamos y traemos una persona a la vez, sin ruido.
  • FRNous écoutons, retenons, et présentons une personne à la fois, sans bruit.

    • In your AI

    Use the AI you already trust.

    Phase 0 launches on Claude. ChatGPT and Gemini are coming soon — same setup, your context follows you via MCP.

    Claude

    Native MCP. The richest experience.

    Connect now

    How long does setup take?+

    About 2 minutes. One MCP setup link, then the conversation lives in Claude.

    Do you store my Claude tokens?+

    Never. Sessions only — per ADR-0003 we don't keep provider tokens in our database.

    Last shippedMemory Graph · 5 days ago

    What we're building

    Public roadmap.

    Vote on what comes next. We ship in the open.

    See full roadmap →

    Planned

  • test\_0020 votes·1 watching

    • In Progress

    Done

    Questions

    Things people ask before signing up.

  • Is this another dating app?+
    • No. There's no feed, no swiping, and no app to open. The whole experience lives in the AI client you already use.
  • What does 'MCP-native' mean?+
    • MCP (Model Context Protocol) is the open standard that lets AI clients talk to outside services. We're built around it from day one — your context follows you across Claude, ChatGPT, and Gemini.
  • Will I get notifications?+
    • No push notifications, ever. We surface matches inside your AI session — only when you're already there.
  • How do you decide who to introduce?+
    • Hard guardrails first (intent, geography, age). Then AI compatibility scoring against the memory we've gathered through your conversations. Then a stable matching algorithm so introductions are mutual.
  • Is my data safe?+
    • OAuth tokens never touch our database. All data is encrypted at rest and in transit. You can export everything as JSON or delete your account at any time, with a 30-day grace period.
  • What does it cost?+
    • Free to try with a 14-day Premium trial. Premium adds priority surfacing and concierge moments. No refunds, but you can cancel any time at the next renewal.

    Tell your AI to set you up.

    It only takes one prompt. We handle the rest.

    Request invite

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