There's a private Facebook group in your city.Your name might be in it.
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There's a private Facebook group in your city.
Your name might be in it.'Are You Dating The Same Guy' is a national network of women-only private Facebook groups — one for each major dating market. Posts about specific men are pinned, commented on, and screenshot-shared. You can't request access as a man. We can. Our analysts hold long-standing cover accounts in major-city AWDTSG groups and search by name, photo, or handle on demand. Verified report in your inbox within 24 hours.
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- ✗You don't know if you're in the local AWDTSG group.
- ✗You don't know what the post about you actually says.
- ✗You don't know which matches have already read it.
- ✗You can't respond to rumours you've never seen.
- ✗Every cancelled date feels like a referendum on you.
- ✓Verified report in your inbox within one business day.
- ✓Screenshots and transcripts when a post exists.
- ✓Clear Not-Found confirmation if nothing is up.
- ✓Intro to a takedown partner if you want one.
- ✓You stop guessing about your own dating life.
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01Primary dating cityPick one
AWDTSG group membership scales with metro size. Larger cities mean larger groups and a higher base rate of named posts.
Small town / ruralMid-size cityTop-25 metroNYC / LA / SF / Boston / Chicago
02Dating-app match volumePick one
Total matches across Tinder / Hinge / Bumble in the last 12 months — a proxy for dating-pool exposure.
None — offline1 active relationshipA handful (2–5)Many (6+)
03Multi-date relationships, last 12 monthsPick one
Women you went on more than one date with in the past year. Repeat-daters are the most frequent AWDTSG posters.
NoneOneA few (2–4)Many (5+)
04Time since last breakupPick one
AWDTSG posting frequency peaks in the 0–60 day window after a relationship ends, especially when the ending was contested.
No prior relationshipOver a year agoLast 3–12 monthsWithin last 3 months
VerdictPending
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1. 01Intake
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Name, photos, age, city. More anchors means higher match accuracy. 2. 02PaymentCheckout via Stripe
Stripe handles your card — we never see it. Your checkout email is the only channel we'll use to send the report. 3. 03ScanAn analyst runs the scan
A real human searches the local AWDTSG Facebook group using our long-standing cover accounts. Average hands-on time: 6–14 hours, spread across multiple queries. 4. 04DeliveryVerified report in your inbox
Verdict, confidence score, full search log, screenshots where a post exists, and a takedown-partner intro if you want one.One analyst · no pipeline · no data resale
FoundPossible MatchNot Found
Found
Screenshots, full transcript, date of post, poster's visible detail and comments. Most clients use it to get ahead of the post before it spreads further through their circle.
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Private AWDTSG group scans
Apr 23 2026
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Your AWDTSG Checker scan is complete
Found
A matching post exists in the local AWDTSG group.
Hello Alex,
We completed your AWDTSG group scan and found a post that matches your details. Evidence is attached below — screenshots, full transcript, date of post, and the poster's visible detail.
Scan record
AnalystA-14
Queries17
Runtime9h 42m
Evidence3 screenshots
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— AWDTSG Checker Team
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01·IdentityEnforced
Your name never enters the group
Searches happen from our analyst cover accounts only. Your real identity is never typed into the AWDTSG Facebook group under any circumstance.
02·NotificationsEnforced
No notification, no trace
Facebook does not surface group searches to other members. No friend request, no view count, no DM — the woman who posted has no signal a scan happened.
03·RetentionEnforced
Analyst-only access
Your submission is visible to the single analyst working your case — and no one else. No engineering access, no marketing exports, no internal dashboards. The record stays sealed from the moment you pay to the moment we deliver.
04·TelemetryEnforced
No third-party trackers on the report
The report doesn't phone home. No analytics, no open-tracking pixels, no referral tags. What you see is the full transmission — nothing else leaves your inbox.
A · Without a scanBlind spot
B · After your scanResolved
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Dates cancelled without a reason
Women routinely cross-check names and photos in the local AWDTSG group before agreeing to meet in person. One flagged post is enough for her to cancel — and she will almost never tell you why. 2. 2Screenshots in group chats you'll never see
AWDTSG posts get screenshotted into private iMessage and WhatsApp threads constantly. The original post can stay private and the story about you still keeps spreading. 3. 3Work and social ripples
If a post mentions your city, employer, or college, it only takes one person in your circle connecting the dots before it becomes a professional problem. 4. 4Months of quiet doubt
Most men don't need the worst-case scenario. They need an answer. Not knowing is the actual tax — the scan is cheaper than another month of wondering.01· CustomerVerified
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I'd lost six months of sleep after a rough split. The dated report confirming nothing was posted cost less than one therapy copay. I read it twice and actually slept that night.
Marcus R.Austin, TX — Not Found
02· CustomerVerified
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The report flagged two posts I had no idea existed — screenshots, transcripts, dates. I used it to have a direct conversation with the woman I'd just started seeing before she ran into them herself. That conversation changed everything.
Dev S.NYC — Found (2 posts)
03· CustomerVerified
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They didn't overpromise. The report came back 'Possible Match, confidence 55%' with a clear list of what lined up and what didn't. I respected that more than a false confident answer.
Jordan P.LA — Possible Match
04· CustomerVerified
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Paid on a Friday, report landed Sunday afternoon with the analyst's search log attached. Felt like a proper background-check service, not a sketchy gimmick. Exactly what I was looking for.
Kenji T.Seattle — Not Found
A match went quiet with no explanation
She was responsive, then went silent after you swapped first names or photos. The single strongest field signal that she cross-referenced you.A messy breakup in the last 18 months
Recent breakup stories are the most common type of Tea post. Most are written in the first six months after the split.You live in a major metro
NYC, LA, Chicago, SF, Austin, Miami, DC, Seattle, and Toronto account for the majority of active Tea threads.Your dating pool overlaps one friend group
Shared social circles dramatically raise the odds that a past date has posted — and that her friends have already read the post.Someone dropped the word 'Tea' around you
Offhand mentions from friends, coworkers, or matches are almost never coincidental. It usually means the post exists and has circulated.You run 2+ dating apps at once
The more profiles you're active on, the more matches you accumulate — and the higher the probability that one of them is on Tea.You're moderately visible online
Public LinkedIn, Instagram, or X accounts make it easier for posters to verify identity — and easier for outsiders to cross-reference a post to you.Rule of thumb · two or more signals present · scan this week
1. T + 00:01Stage 1 / 4
The post goes live
She types it out after a bad date — a paragraph, sometimes a photo, tagged to the local group's city. Visible to every approved member of that AWDTSG group the moment she hits post. 2. T + 01:00Stage 2 / 4Local feed surfaces it
Facebook's group feed prioritises new + interactive posts. Within an hour, women in your city scrolling the AWDTSG group see it at the top. This is when the post does most of its damage. 3. T + 24:00Stage 3 / 4Screenshots leak to group chats
Forwarded into iMessage, WhatsApp, Telegram, off-platform 'roster' chats. Once a screenshot leaves the AWDTSG group, no platform can pull it back. 4. T + ∞Stage 4 / 4It outlives the original
Even if the post is deleted by the author or removed by group admins, the screenshots keep circulating. Removal becomes exponentially harder after day 7. This is why speed matters.↳ Leverage
Run a scan before someone in your city does it for you.
01Can't I just join the AWDTSG group myself?
'Are You Dating The Same Guy' groups are women-only and admins manually approve every join request. As a man, you can't get past the screening — admins reject male-presenting profiles before they're approved. There's no way for you to log in and look yourself. Our analysts use long-standing cover accounts that aren't linked to any client and have never been removed.
02If you find nothing, is the report still worth it?
03Will the woman who posted about me be notified?
04If you find a post, can you take it down?
05How private is my side of the transaction?
'Are You Dating The Same Guy' is a network of women-only Facebook groups — one for each major US dating market, with combined membership well into seven figures. Members post about men they've dated by name, photo, and city. Other members comment, flag, and screenshot. As a man, you cannot see any of it: every group is private, members-only, and admins manually screen out male-presenting profiles before approving access.
AWDTSG Checker is the bridge. Our analysts hold long-standing cover accounts inside the major-city AWDTSG groups. When you submit a scan, a single analyst searches the group your dating life intersects — by name, photo, age, and any handles you share — and emails you a verified report with the actual post text and screenshots within 24 hours. We are not affiliated with Facebook or the group admins, we are not a takedown service, and we never pool, resell, or expose your submission. We give you visibility into the one platform that's specifically designed to keep you out.
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